Table of Contents
Introduction Dedication
Chapter One: You aren't Reading this by Accident.
Chapter Two: Entering the "Mind" Field.
Chapter Three: Putting the "Fun" Back into "Dysfunction."
Chapter Four: The Push-Pull of the Relationship
Chapter Five: The Paradox of Chronic Tension
Chapter Six: "He had a Hat."
Chapter Seven: "They Don't Know They're Beautiful."
Chapter Eight: Mountains from Molehills.
Chapter Nine: You Decide if We Trade with North Korea, Your ACOA Will Decide the
rest.
Chapter Ten: Nurturing Your Partner's Inner Child
Chapter Eleven: Too Nice
Chapter Twelve: "He can walk but God willing he'll never have to."
Chapter Thirteen: Holidays, Fun, Spontaneity, Recipes for Nurturing the Inner
Child
Chapter Fourteen: Birds of a Feather.
Chapter Fifteen: Relationship Maintenance
Chapter Sixteen: Dealing with Addiction Problems
Chapter Seventeen: Religion Helped Us
Chapter Eighteen: Conclusions
Chapter Nineteen: Resources
Dedication To adult children of alcoholics and those who love them-we hope you will be as happy as we have been.